Should your boyfriend or girlfriend gets mad at you in the public for whatever reasons.. I THINK, neither each party should use any offensive language to display your unhappiness towards each other, esp in front of your friends. I understand that sometimes in the heat of the moment, you just need a right word to describe your feelings.. but say NO to those offensive languages yah? Yes, you might not mean it. But its often words like these that hurts most. What more when its in front of your friends or his friends. Like oh my goodness right? lols. Well.. if you ask me what would i do if i ever did that on my boyfriend.. Hmmm i would simply wait till i cool down and apologise to my boyfriend and his friends, in front of his friends. By doing so, is only showing due respect for him. If someone ever question but why apologise to his friends too.. My point is, at least they know i dint mean it on purpose and i acknowledege the fact that i did a thing like that.. Perhaps you might think its not necessary, but you never know what wonders it brings.
Just allow me to quote my imagnative example:
Boyfriend and girlfriend are mad at each other and refuse to give in.. Girlfriend said something nonsensical and boyfriend's blood boils.. And start to hurl ugly words to his friends about the issue. Although eventually they made up.. but ever come across your mind that the hurt is already there? What if your friends remembers the incident and everytime they see your girlfriend/boyfriend, they just remind themselves of the issue again? Surely they might minus marks right? Yes, you might say a relationship is something personal and is only between you two.. but not when it becomes a topic for others.
Ah.. i was just trying to come up with a scenario for my topic. It was purely random thoughts of mine and its all about my opinion. Boohoo~
HJJ is a bully leh! He always pick on vunerable people like me to bully. Very horrible right? lols. HJJ The Countdown begins says: u wont even get to share the leftovers
suck thumb - so be it. says: ah pls
suck thumb - so be it. says: im not the least bit of interested with ur leftovers
suck thumb - so be it. says: blah
HJJ The Countdown begins says: ah then good
HJJ The Countdown begins says: dont share lor ahaha
suck thumb - so be it. says: humph
HJJ The Countdown begins says: u not interested wad
HJJ The Countdown begins says: good
suck thumb - so be it. says: u horiible
suck thumb - so be it. says: horrible*
HJJ The Countdown begins says: ya, u dont know meh?
HJJ The Countdown begins says: wahahahah
suck thumb - so be it. says: haha
HJJ The Countdown begins says: ~HAHA
suck thumb - so be it. says: HUMPH
suck thumb - so be it. says: u bully!
HJJ The Countdown begins says: yeah
HJJ The Countdown begins says: u poor victim
suck thumb - so be it. says: haha
suck thumb - so be it. says: let me post it on my blog
suck thumb - so be it. says: lols
HJJ The Countdown begins says: ....
HJJ The Countdown begins says: good good
HJJ The Countdown begins says: post let the whole world see
suck thumb - so be it. says: yes lah, i make sure the whole world knows!
suck thumb - so be it. says: lols
HJJ The Countdown begins says: good
HJJ The Countdown begins says: faster go and post now
-_-" Oh, he's not my boyfriend. He's currently happily attached to another happy-go-lucky-gurl. haha.
p/s: my boyfriend is definitely not as mean as him lor. lols.
